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ID:	3024
Author:	socialight
Title:	Dating Coach Secrets From A Professional
Article:	Its often been said that those who can do and those who cant teach. This isnt so in the dating world. A quality dating coach is someone who can walk the walk and talk the talk. But how does someone get that good? Lets take a look at some of the secrets that allow some guys to reach a high level of success with women. They get rejected. Like a lot of things in the dating world getting rejected to get better with women is counter-intuitive. But those who get rejected more get laid more. The fact is it will always be a bit of a numbers game so the more you put yourself out there the better your chance of success. Coaches simply dont take rejection personally. Sometimes they even see it as a good thing. Hows that? Imagine youre out looking for a one night stand. You open a set and can tell immediately the girl is very conservative and uncomfortable with her sexuality. You start escalating and get blown out. Is this a bad thing? No. Youre now free to go find that woman that is also looking to hook up that night. Theyre indifferent. This ties into getting rejected. A good dating coach is out to have fun and amuse himself first. He is not taking the interaction too seriously. The ability to do this is based on a few things. You need to have an abundance mentality. Sometimes things with a woman will blow up at the last minute. You think shes coming home with you, she wants to come home with you and then her friend gets too sick and she has to take care of her. If you have an abundance mentality you will let it roll off. You know youll be getting laid soon its only a matter of time. No big deal. The ability to be truly non needy also plays into this and is a result of having an abundance mentality. You also have to be out to have fun first. Women have great bullshit detectors and can tell when youre being transparent with them, even when you think they cant. If youre out truly enjoying yourself without regard for the outcome you will be rewarded with more success. Theyre dominant. This is a big one. A master dating coach understands that most of the time the man has to lead, both in the conversation and in escalating to sex. You cant be afraid to make a move or even a bold move once shes attracted to you. A lot of women go out to hook up and theyre looking for the guy who will make that happen. However some guys take this too far and focus only on the girl they like and forget the friends. Women wont like this either as it will make you seem too eager and single-minded. Not to mention you dont look like youre out to have fun but only to get laid. You need to be dominant with the woman youre interested in and to a lesser degree with the friends. If you win them all over it will only make you job that much easier. About the author of this article: learn more about using dating coach to meet beautiful women and then some by visiting http://www.braddocksblog.com
Category:	Recreation: Relationships
Date:	June 03, 2009 08:02:45 PM

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